The prisoners wanted contraband, not a “country band”!

…but they did enjoy the gospel band that played tonight!

I had the incredible opportunity to sit in with Slarti’s band, X-Alt this evening for a concert at the Riverbend Maximum Security Prison.

It was a great experience! The men were all very kind to us, and so grateful that we came out to sing for them. It was cool to me how they helped set up our equipment, and when we realized that the piano that used to be in the chapel was gone, one of the inmates let us borrow the keyboard he had been allowed to have for good behavior. I noticed how a couple of them were so excited to be able to play Katy’s guitar and she was very gracious to them when they asked if they could play it.

The two most moving parts of the evening, for me, was when each man was asked if he had a need that he would like to be prayed for. These guys wanted prayers for their families, for each other, and even for us. Then one of the guys stood and spoke about how earlier in the week, he hurt one of his fellow inmates, who was now sitting across the aisle from him. He said that he wanted to publicly thank this man because he showed compassion toward him even when he had hurt him so bad. He said it was the first time in his life that somebody had shown him that kind of compassion. It was a very compelling moment to watch two very tough-on-the-outside hardened criminals be so touched by an act of kindness.

The other thing that was just amazing was listening to one of the inmates play and sing a song he wrote. It’s called, “Where the River Bends,” and it was REALLY good. (Remember the name of the institution?) Anyway, having just an acoustic guitar accompanying his R&B flavored voice fit perfectly together for this song. All of the guys seemed to know the song, too, and were singing along. He sang of struggling to stay afloat in the raging river of life and of praying that the Lord would keep him safe where the river bends. It made me all teary (of course).

It was a blessing to be a part of this band tonight. It felt great to be singing with a group again. There are few things I enjoy more than singing harmony with some really great singers. It was a blast.

I am very thankful to Slarti for the opportunity. I can’t put in to words how much I appreciate it.

A good man once said…”…for I was hungry and you gave Me food; I was thirsty and you gave Me drink; I was a stranger and you took Me in; I was naked and you clothed Me; I was sick and you visited Me; I was in prison and you came to Me.’ …‘Assuredly, I say to you, inasmuch as you did it to one of the least of these, My brethren, you did it to Me.’”

After the experience tonight, I kinda feel like I know what he meant.

10 Responses

  1. I’m glad you had such a fulfilling evening.

  2. That’s such a nice post. I’m glad to call you my friend. When do you play Folsom Prison?

    Mike

  3. What a wonderful experience. Thank you for going out there and humanizing these men who have been treated less than human.
    Sometimes it’s all that dehumanization that causes someone to snap. It can happen to anyone.

    Conversely, a little love goes a long way.

    I hope you will visit them and share love and joy with them again.
    Thanks!!!

  4. Thank you so much for coming with us! I’m sorry we kept you so late, and doubly sorry we didn’t get to sit and talk very much (seems I’m always incredibly busy during these things).

    The prison is one of our absolute favorite gigs, it’s one of the few times when we do what we do, and it actually feels like worship. No egos, no “church” issues; everyone is connected and of the same purpose.

    I was so moved by “Where The River Bends”; that song needs to be recorded by somebody, one day.

    All in all – a great evening. Thanks again for lending your voice (you sing wonderfully!)

  5. Ginger-now you see why we love to go out there so much-these guys made mistakes ( I am afraid to ask what they were) but being in prison gives them time to really get the “demons” out of their system and turn over a new leaf…it is our honor to be able to be there for these men and help to keep them inspired towards the new life they are choosing…and you are welcome to join us anytime!

  6. Wow. I’m glad you got to sing ‘with the band’. I know how good the band is, and I know that not only did you fit in, but that all of you gave and received something very special.

    kudos to X-Alt!

  7. Funny title.

    I wish more people had the opportunity to sit with those cast out from everyone and everything. They may seem hard as nails on the outside, but inside they long for that feeling of being connected to everyone else.

  8. My sister goes to the women’s prison in Knoxville several times a month. Wouldn’t miss it for the world.

  9. Yay for you for making a difference. This is off the good.
    Glad your my pal.

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